The difficult art of becoming.

What’s up, Doc?

He said to me “You’re always making excuses. You’ve got an excuse for everything. Three words. ‘I. Am. Responsible.’ You need to remember them.”

It was like being punched in the face. I went home and cried.

For nearly twenty years they controlled and disempowered me, making sure I didn’t question, and deferred to them for damn near everything. Interfering with almost every goddamned thing I touched.

I sat there in tears, and thought about that. Then I thought about what he said to me.

And I realised…

He’s right.


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